Boundaries.....

"I have boundary issues with men. Or maybe that's not fair to say. To have issues with boundaries, one must have boundaries in the first place,right? But I disappear into the person I love. I am the permeable membrane. If I love you, you can have everything. You can have my time, my devotion,my ass, my money, my family, my dog, my dog's money, my dog's time - everything. If I love you, I will carry for you all your pain, I will assume for you all your debts (in every definition of the word), I will protect you from your own insecurity,....., I will give you the sun and the rain, and if they are not available, I will give you a sun check and a rain check. I will give you all this and more, until I get so exhausted and depleted that the only way I can recover my energy is by becoming infatuated with someone else." 

(E. Gilbert)

Este texto é so, so, so, so, so, so ME!!!! 
Mas, é sempre altura de mudar.... o primeiro passo é reconhecer o problema, depois, encontrar uma solução! E depois, passo a passo, caminhar em direcção a ela!!